GENERAL RECOMMENDATIONS


TO HELP ANY CHILD COMMUNICATE MORE.
FIRST: Believe that your child will learn to interact and communicate with you more than anyone else.
SECOND: Understand that every interaction you have will help your child learn. The more you interact back and forth every day, the more your child will learn with you.
THIRD: Be a possible partner. Ask yourself, "Can my child try to do what I am doing?" If not, try hard to act like your child, plus one. "Plus one" means you to do what your child can do and frequently show the next step-- for example, another sound or word.
FOURTH: Make your life together one of frequently taking turns and waiting for your child to respond. Silent waiting is one most effective ways to help a child communicate.
Note: I suggest that you post this list where you see it frequently. These habits have helped many adults help children to communicate more.
Let us know what happens.
Dr. Jim
macdonaldj86@gmail.com

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